Saturday, February 6, 2010

Stowaway


My Mom left and had a long trip home. With all the snow in the north east I'm pretty sure that most people traveling today had airport issues. Her initial flight was scheduled to leave North Carolina at 11:30, and after a quick stop in Orlando she would have been home at 2:30 EST. Instead she left North Carolina around 12:30 flew to Orlando, flew to New Orleans, and then finally flew to Houston, she finally got home around 7:30 EST. I know she's glad to finally be home!

We loved having her here. She was here for 2 weeks but the time seemed to fly by. The kids both really enjoyed having her around. Olivia has decided to rename my mom "grandma" which is much more appropriate the previous nick name that Olivia had given her (Olivia called my mom "pop pop"). We all loved having my mom around and we'll miss her!

Mommy Moment of the Week

Olivia loves having her picture taken recently. I love how content she is to pose for an impromptu morning picture with mommy. I look terrible, did I mention it was an EARLY morning picture. Still worth it to see that smiling face.

School Time

This week started off horribly but it's ending on a great note. On Friday afternoon we met with the itinerant teacher here in our school district and one of the occupational therapists. They were fantastic. I'd given them some website links where they could learn more about Sanfilippo syndrome and the teacher came with pages of printed out material and questions. After all the advocating I've had to do it's nice to meet others who are stepping up. We had met such a wonderful group of educators in Washington, I was so nervous about meeting people here in our new school district. Olivia's IEP was written in Washington state and then I thought that we had updated it in Durham county through the Durham Hospital School. It turns out that it wasn't really updated correctly. I think that the hospital school does a good job of providing services on an interim basis but it's become pretty obvious that they weren't really sure what to do with Olivia's IEP. Basically we're having to start over, using the real IEP from Washington. We talked about Olivia's goals and then I gave them copies all of the evaluations that we have. We also talked about the fact that I refuse to have Olivia go through another series of developmental tests for at least a year. Over the last year Olivia has had developmental testing in one form or another (the Mullen, the Peabody, the Battelle) so many times that I don't think any of the results are valid at this point. She was tested in March, evaluated again in April, then in May as part of her IEP creation, in July by in-patient therapists in the hospital, in October by therapists when we went outpatient who provided services in Durham, in December by therapists when we moved here to Fayetteville, and again this past week at UNC. That's 7 times in the last year. They agreed to just use all of the other evaluations rather than evaluate again. I refuse to accept the "we need to have our own record" line any more.

Olivia wasn't super cooperative today but she did warm up to the teacher and by the end of the visit she was happily sitting in her lap. With Olivia's busy therapy schedule it will be difficult to fit in school time as well but I think she'll be able to have school time at least once a week starting next week. I'll have to go to another IEP meeting in a couple of weeks but then we should have things in place for the rest of this school year. I am really looking forward to the 2010-2011 school year when Olivia will hopefully be able to attend school rather than having to have home based therapy and instruction.

Friday, February 5, 2010

Date Night

Funny how much date night changes as your family grows. When Olivia was younger we still had frequent date nights. Of course we didn't stay out as late as we did pre-kids but we still stayed out pretty late. We were fortunate enough to have a built-in babysitter since my mom is still here. Getting ready was crazy hectic. The kids destroyed the bathroom in the 10 minutes that I was trying to get ready. Peter shoved so much toilet paper in the toilet that I had to plunge it. Sexy, I know, nothing says date night like plunging a toilet. I looked at the clock and noticed it was 15 minutes after Mike had said he'd be home, I was sure we might end up not going after all but I remembered that it was Thursday and The Real Housewives of Orange County was going to be on and I cheered up a bit. Mike did end up coming home after all. We gave Olivia her meds and put her down a little early before we left. I was in such a rush I forgot to wear my wedding rings! We went out for a fantastic dinner at a great restaurant in an old restored house in downtown Fayetteville. We had a great time and we were home by 10 pm. Wow, things have changed.