We headed to DC over the weekend, we went for Aiden's Memorial Service at Ft. Belvoir. I have hesitated a lot over blogging about Aiden, his last days, and his service. They are not my stories or memories to tell. I want to respect his family and I am scared that I will say or do something that would hurt or offend them, especially during this difficult time.
I am very glad that we were able to attend the service. It was nice to be there in person, I've communicated a few times via phone/email/text with Aiden's mom but it means so much more to be there and share a hug. There were a couple of other Sanfilippo families there and it is always nice to spend time with people who understand Sanfilippo syndrome, I think a good word to describe it would be fellowship.
Unfortunately we've been to a few funerals and memorial services. Military funerals always make me sick, literally when they do the roll call I feel like I'm being punched in the stomach, I have to force myself to keep breathing. Funerals for older people are easier. I remember my grandfather's funeral fondly (Mom I hope I'm not upsetting you by saying this). I got to see all my aunts and uncles and cousins. The sun was shinning and it was a beautiful day. He did pass too soon but he lived a long, full, life. I remember there being tons of people there. Funerals for children are so sad. Life cut too short, ending too soon. The truth is that we think about what it will be like when it's time for us to plan a similar ceremony for Olivia. Depressing but true. It was a touching service with a slide show of pictures of Aiden. We are so glad we were able to attend.
Aiden's Prayer
We little knew that morning that
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
You did not go alone;
For part of us went with you,
The day God called you home.
You left us peaceful memories,
Your love it still our guide;
And though we cannot see you,
You are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken
And nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.
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