Thursday, April 15, 2010

Picture Download

or maybe it's really an upload, I guess technically it's a download and an upload since I downloaded them from my cell phone and uploaded them to the blog. In any case here are some pics of what we've been up too lately.....


Olivia and Peter are really into playing with each other lately.



Peter is ready for the pool, never mind that it's 7 am and he's in the middle of our hotel room (from when we were in Charleston a couple of weeks ago).


Peter reading a book while waiting at clinic.

Day +266 Clinic Recap

Our visit to clinic seemed to flow so smoothly! We were in a room beside the most adorable little boy who is just a few months older than Peter. We met this little guy "H" when just as Olivia was discharged from 5200 (I can't believe it's been over 6 months since she was discharged). It was so magical to see the look on "H" and Peter's faces as they looked at eachother through the sliding glass door. Both Peter and "H" don't get to see many other kids so it was really neat to see how into eachother they were, they gave eachother high 5's through the glass.

Olivia's labs looked fantastic! Really they couldn't look better, her body seems to be working more efficiently lately. It feels like all of a sudden things are coming together, she's not needing as many vitamin and mineral supplements, she's getting more nutrients out of her food. Medically she's doing really well we got comments all day long about how well she's doing and how good she's looking. We're so blessed! As a parent it doesn't always seem like much of this process makes much sense. Some kids do well, some don't. Olivia's unbilical cord stem cells came from a good match but not a perfect one. There were several other kids who had better matches but they have had to face more complications. There doesn't seem to be any correlation. There's so little control we have over any of this. I been in a really reflective mood lately, thinking about all that has happened over the last 9 months. I can't believe it's been 9 months. This is the first time since Olivia was born in that I feel like time has slowed down. Nine months is a long time and when I think of everything we've been through I still feel it. Every single doctor appointment, every lab draw, every scan, every developmental test. But then I look at Peter and I see a little boy not a baby, where did the time go? Speaking of the 9 months it's almost time for Olivia's 9 month post-transplant studies. I'm told these are not very invasive, just a lot of labwork, an echocardiogram, lung function tests, and an EEG. These will hopefully be completed in 2 weeks at our clinic visit. At the 9 month mark they will also test Olivia's immune function again. Now that some of her steroids have been weaned we're hoping that she shows some improved immune function. The doctor did give us the okay to go into some public places with the following guidelines.....outside is always better than inside, go during off peak times, wipe down what we can with lysol, keep a mask handy so that other people will stay away because people fear the mask. They gave us these instructions several weeks ago but we haven't had anywhere to go that I really thought was worth it so we're still pretty carefull. They did give us the OK to stop by Costco on the way home, I spent way too much money on paper products--diapers, wipes, pull ups, paper towels, toilet paper. The glamerous life of a mom, I wish I could go in and spend the money on wine and beer and fruit and cheese and flowers.

That's it for now but I promise to post more pictures soon! I've figured out how to get them off my cell phone so pictures to come.....

Oh and I almost forgot....the best news from clinic is that we can stop Olivia's blood pressue med! My almost 4 year old won't need any more blood pressue medicine!

Monday, April 12, 2010

Rainbow of Heroes and Operation Olivia


The Rainbow of Heroes Walk is the annual fundraiser/reunion for the PBMT program at Duke. On the first Saturday in May, we walk together as a community. Along the way, as we carry balloons with patients' names on them, people stop, talk together, and enjoy each other. Finally, we release the balloons.

The Rainbow of Heroes Walk commemorates and celebrates all Duke Pediatric Blood and Marrow Transplant (PBMT) patients and their families. Refreshments, music, and activities for everyone are provided.

The Walk is not only the main fundraiser for the Duke PBMT Family Support Program. More than that, it is a reunion for patients, families, nurses, therapists, doctors, volunteers, and supporters who have come to know each other through the months-long transplant process.

We have created Operation Olivia to represent our team during the walk. We are having Operation Olivia t-shirts printed to wear during the walk. If you make a contribution to Operation Olivia we will be happy to mail you a special Operation Olivia t-shirt. Please leave a comment with your name, t-shirt size, and address if you would like us to mail you a t-shirt. To make a contribution to Operation Olivia please click here: Donate to Operation Olivia

Saturday, April 10, 2010

On the Mend

After an entire week of us all feeling sick I think it's safe to say that we're FINALLY on the mend. Olivia is the only one who ever got a fever and she seemed to bounce back the quickest (thank goodness). Aside from her having to have her breathing treatments 4 times a day instead of just twice a day you'd never know that she was sick. Peter and I are still coughing occasionally but it's much better now and today is the first day all week that I didn't wake up with a pounding headache. During our week of sickness I did discover that the downstairs couch makes an great spot for cuddling with both Olivia and Peter! I discovered that the two of them will happily share a bowl of popcorn and blankets while I moan in sinus induced misery on the opposite side of the couch. I also discovered that Peter loves tv, especially anything of the animated variety and that he knows who Dora is and can say "dora". We went through almost 2 containers of popsicles and I didn't cook dinner for an entire week. We saved a ton of money on groceries and Mike and I both lost at least 5 pounds. Now that I reflect on the week I think that the only thing I was able to accomplish was cleaning out the kids dresser drawers.