I saw this while I was in a waiting room this past week and it is so true that I just had to share!
A Special Needs Parent's Wish List
So you'd like to give me a gift? That's nice, but the things I really need don't wrap so well. Put away that paper, keep your card, and just give me one of these. All I really want is:
BABYSITTING
A few nights out this year will do me a lot more
good than another sweater or DVD.
HOUSE CLEANING
Oh, yeah. Come clean my house, Anytime.
Do you do windows?
HOMEWORK HELP
Teach my kid math. Help her write a paper.
Drill her with flashcards. Give me a break.
SOUNDING BOARD
Therapy? Expensice. Someone like you,
who I can call and gripe to for hours?
Priceless.
BACK-UP
Come to an IEP meetings and
doctor's appointments.
Bring tissues.
And maybe a baseball bat.
CHILD'S PLAY
My child wants to play
with me, needs to play with me,
all the darn time.
You take a few shifts, okay?
SLEEP
Offer to take my kids to
school one morning. Also wake them up,
and get them dressed and fed.
I'm sleeping in.